Everything, 30 at a time

Every meditation, breathing exercise, sleep story, focus session, guide and essay on SoftlyStill — 6,878 pieces, newest first, 30 to a page.

Guide3 min read

Ten minutes outside is not a wellness cliché — a realistic guide, when you want to be left alone

It is the least fashionable intervention available and one of the most reliable. Here is what it actually does.

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Sleep20 min

A fire dying down (a sleep story), when you only have a few minutes — for the hours after a late shift

The last hour of a fire, when it stops being a fire and becomes warmth.

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Focus90 min

90-minute focus block for applications and forms — rain on a window, when you have tried everything else

A timer, a short prep list, and 90 minutes to get through the questions.

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Breathing2 min

5-2-7 breath (5 · 2 · 7) for Sunday evening, when you want to finish something

A 5 · 2 · 7 rhythm — five, a brief hold, then seven out.

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Breathing2 min

Beginner box breathing: 4 rounds for a long illness, if you are doing this in the middle of the day

A 2 · 2 · 2 · 2 rhythm — the easiest version of the square.

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Meditation10 min

10-minute self-compassion meditation for deadline pressure, in the middle of the night

10 minutes to meet deadline pressure with less of a fight. A self-compassion practice, in the middle of the night.

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Meditation20 min

Body scan for grief: 20 minutes, when the news hits hard

For the times when the news hits hard when grief takes up more room than you would like — 20 minutes, body scan.

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Guide3 min read

When grief arrives out of nowhere, for people who have tried everything, if you are new to this

Grief does not follow a schedule. The waves come less often over time, but they do not stop, and that is not a failure.

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Sleep10 min

A library at closing time — a slow story for the end of the day, when you are at home and cannot settle — for a racing mind

The last hour, when the lights go down row by row.

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Focus25 min

Focus session for planning: 25 minutes, a fireplace, when you have just finished work

25 minutes of planning, with a fireplace and a note on what to do when you drift.

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Breathing2 min

Coherent 4-4 breath (4 · 4) for a stolen moment of caregiving, when you are doing this for the first time

A 4 · 4 rhythm — four and four, if five feels like a stretch.

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Breathing2 min

Soft 4-7-8 breathing exercise for bedtime — when you need to stop thinking about work

A 4 · 4 · 8 rhythm — the hold cut short, the long exhale kept.

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Meditation15 min

15-minute guided noting practice for better sleep — beside your desk

15 minutes to meet better sleep with less of a fight. A noting practice, beside your desk.

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Meditation5 min

5-minute guided softening practice for overwhelm — after a horrible day

For the times after a horrible day when overwhelm takes up more room than you would like — 5 minutes, softening.

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Guide3 min read

How to stop scrolling in bed — the long answer, briefly, when your attention is scattered

The phone is not the problem. The fact that it is within reach and there is nothing else to do is the problem. Here is what actually helps.

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Sleep15 min

A boat at anchor, when you want to be left alone — for a restless night

A small harbour, a rope that creaks, and a boat that moves about a metre in the night.

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Focus45 min

Focus session for writing: 45 minutes, distant traffic, before you go back to something hard

45 minutes of writing, with distant traffic and a note on what to do when you drift.

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Breathing2 min

Box breathing — 4 · 4 · 4 · 4 — for anxious moments, if you are doing this in the middle of the day

A 4 · 4 · 4 · 4 rhythm — four equal sides, like tracing a square.

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Breathing2 min

7-11 breathing exercise for a hospital waiting room — if you are doing this instead of scrolling

A 7 · 11 rhythm — a long, slow ratio for when you have time.

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Meditation3 min

Body scan for the inner critic: 3 minutes, between meetings

A 3-minute body scan session for the inner critic, between meetings. No app, no account — press start.

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Meditation10 min

Deep work: 10-minute self-compassion meditation, when you are overwhelmed

For the times when you are overwhelmed when deep work takes up more room than you would like — 10 minutes, self-compassion.

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Story5 min read

Meditation for Exam Anxiety: What the Research Reveals

Discover how meditation can ease your exam anxiety, backed by real research.

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Meditation15 min

rain on the window mindfulness

Use this when you need a calm pause before bedtime.

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Meditation12 min

morning stillness routine

Use this when you sit at your kitchen table before the day begins.

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Guide3 min read

What to do when everything is too much — a gentle, practical guide, when you have been meaning to start

Overwhelm is not a lack of capacity. It is too many open loops and no order to them. The fix is unglamorous.

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Sleep20 min

A hotel room somewhere (a sleep story), when you cannot concentrate on anything else — for winding down

A room you did not choose, in a city you do not have to know.

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Focus90 min

Focus session for language practice: 90 minutes, a fan or air conditioner, when you want to be left alone

90 minutes of language practice, with a fan or air conditioner and a note on what to do when you drift.

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Breathing2 min

Coherent 5-5 breathing exercise for the morning after — when you need something unremarkable

Rounds of 5 · 5, with the counting done for you.

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Breathing2 min

Tight box breathing for the middle of the night, when you are somewhere noisy

Rounds of 4 · 1 · 4 · 1, with the counting done for you.

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Meditation15 min

15-minute noting meditation for shame, before bedtime

For the times before bedtime when shame takes up more room than you would like — 15 minutes, noting.

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