Everything, 30 at a time

Every meditation, breathing exercise, sleep story, focus session, guide and essay on SoftlyStill — 6,878 pieces, newest first, 30 to a page.

Focus45 min

45-minute thesis writing session with rain on a window and a timer, when you are short on time

Sit down, press start, and add to the pile for 45 minutes. A single class period, the length most people can hold before the quality drops.

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Breathing2 min

Coherent 5-5 breathing: 6 rounds for jet lag, when you feel restless rather than tired

5 · 5 breathing: five seconds in, five seconds out — about six breaths a minute.

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Meditation20 min

20-minute softening meditation for contentment, when it all piles up

A 20-minute softening session for contentment, when it all piles up. No app, no account — press start.

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Meditation10 min

10-minute gratitude meditation for the inner critic, on a Sunday

For the times on a Sunday when the inner critic takes up more room than you would like — 10 minutes, gratitude.

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Guide3 min read

When the inner voice will not let something go, step by step, when you have been putting it off

Self-criticism usually repeats because it is trying to prevent something. Arguing with it does not work. Understanding it sometimes does.

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Focus50 min

50-minute design work session with a fireplace and a timer, on a day that started badly

Sit down, press start, and make decisions for 50 minutes. Fifty minutes, the length of a therapy hour, with ten minutes off afterwards.

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Breathing2 min

6-2-6-2 breathing exercise for heated moments — when nothing else has worked today

A 6 · 2 · 6 · 2 rhythm — even and rhythmic, with brief holds on both sides.

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Meditation5 min

Meditation for panic: 5-minute self-compassion session, on a day off

A 5-minute self-compassion session for panic, on a day off. No app, no account — press start.

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Meditation15 min

15-minute guided body scan practice for tight shoulders and neck — during a break

For the times during a break when tight shoulders and neck takes up more room than you would like — 15 minutes, body scan.

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Guide3 min read

Working in a noisy place without losing your mind — what works and what does not, if you are sceptical about all of this

You cannot always control the noise. You can control what your attention does with it, and what you put in your ears.

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Focus90 min

90-minute decluttering session with vinyl crackle and a timer, when you are at home and cannot settle

Sit down, press start, and move things out for 90 minutes. One full ultradian cycle, for work that needs a long runway.

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Breathing2 min

Slow box breathing exercise for a hard week — when you are on your own

A 5 · 5 · 5 · 5 rhythm — a wider square, once four feels comfortable.

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Meditation12 min

Noting for loneliness: 12 minutes, in the morning

A 12-minute noting session for loneliness, in the morning. No app, no account — press start.

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Meditation3 min

Softening for public speaking fear: 3 minutes, on a train

When public speaking fear shows up on a train, this 3-minute softening session gives you somewhere to put it down.

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Guide3 min read

The five minutes after a difficult meeting — a plain-language guide, when you are cold and want to be warm

Back-to-back meetings leave no room to come down. Five deliberate minutes changes the next hour.

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Focus45 min

A 45-minute block for admin and email, with a fan or air conditioner, after eating too much

A single 45-minute block for admin and email — in one pass, without opening new tabs.

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Breathing2 min

4-6 breathing exercise for days when everything is too much — if you are fitting this around other people

A 4 · 6 rhythm — in for four, out for six.

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Meditation20 min

Body scan meditation for falling asleep (20 min), on a lunch break

A 20-minute body scan session for falling asleep, on a lunch break. No app, no account — press start.

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Meditation7 min

Self-compassion meditation for deadline pressure (7 min), in the queue

When deadline pressure shows up in the queue, this 7-minute self-compassion session gives you somewhere to put it down.

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Guide3 min read

What to do when you wake at 3am — what nobody tells you, when you only have a few minutes

Waking in the middle of the night is normal. What turns it into an hour of lying awake is the reaction to it.

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Focus50 min

A 50-minute block for portfolio work, with distant thunder, if you are tired of apps

A single 50-minute block for portfolio work — the last ten percent.

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Breathing2 min

How to use 4-2-6 breathing for a long wait, when you have more time than usual

A 4 · 2 · 6 rhythm — a short hold in the middle, a long way out.

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Meditation5 min

Low energy: 5-minute softening meditation, in the afternoon slump

A 5-minute softening session for low energy, in the afternoon slump. No app, no account — press start.

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Meditation12 min

Meditation for better sleep: 12-minute noting session, in the hour before an interview

When better sleep shows up in the hour before an interview, this 12-minute noting session gives you somewhere to put it down.

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Guide3 min read

Preparing for a conversation you are dreading — the basics, done properly, when you want something simple

Most dread is about the first thirty seconds, not the conversation. Prepare for those and the rest gets easier.

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Focus25 min

25-minute focus session for problem solving with café murmur, when you want something simple

25 minutes on problem solving — before looking anything up. One pomodoro, long enough to get somewhere and short enough to start.

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Breathing2 min

How to use Coherent 6-6 breathing for creative work, when you have been putting it off

A 6 · 6 rhythm — six and six, the slower end of coherent breathing.

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Meditation10 min

10-minute gratitude meditation for appreciation, after work

A 10-minute gratitude session for appreciation, after work. No app, no account — press start.

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Meditation20 min

Body scan for the inner critic: 20 minutes, before an exam

When the inner critic shows up before an exam, this 20-minute body scan session gives you somewhere to put it down.

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Guide3 min read

When to drink coffee so it does not ruin your sleep — a short read, when you want to finish something

Caffeine has a long tail. The cup at 3pm is still in your system at 9pm, whether you feel it or not.

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