Everything, 30 at a time

Every meditation, breathing exercise, sleep story, focus session, guide and essay on SoftlyStill — 6,878 pieces, newest first, 30 to a page.

Meditation12 min

Meditation for better sleep: 12-minute softening session, before sleep

Slow, spoken guidance for better sleep. A softening session you can do before sleep.

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Meditation5 min

Meditation for irritability: 5-minute noting session, on a break

Nothing to learn and nothing to fix: 5 minutes of noting for irritability, on a break.

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Guide3 min read

Ten minutes outside is not a wellness cliché — what to expect, when you are not sure this will work

It is the least fashionable intervention available and one of the most reliable. Here is what it actually does.

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Focus45 min

45-minute focus block for studying — a fireplace, when you are too tired to try hard

A timer, a short prep list, and 45 minutes to take in the material.

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Breathing3 min

5-2-7 breathing: 12 rounds for the hours after people leave, when you want to be left alone

5 · 2 · 7 breathing: five, a brief hold, then seven out.

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Meditation20 min

Self-compassion for self-criticism: 20 minutes, on a slow Sunday

Slow, spoken guidance for self-criticism. A self-compassion session you can do on a slow Sunday.

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Meditation10 min

Body scan for deep work: 10 minutes, at the airport

Nothing to learn and nothing to fix: 10 minutes of body scan for deep work, at the airport.

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Guide3 min read

When grief arrives out of nowhere — the version that fits a real week, when you are not in the mood

Grief does not follow a schedule. The waves come less often over time, but they do not stop, and that is not a failure.

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Focus50 min

50-minute focus block for drawing — vinyl crackle, when you are not sure this will work

A timer, a short prep list, and 50 minutes to fill the page.

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Breathing2 min

Coherent 4-4 breathing: 12 rounds for a lonely evening, if you are new to this

4 · 4 breathing: four and four, if five feels like a stretch.

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Meditation7 min

7-minute guided breathing practice for physical tension — first thing

7 minutes to meet physical tension with less of a fight. A breathing practice, first thing.

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Meditation15 min

Softening meditation for shame (15 min), on a train journey

Nothing to learn and nothing to fix: 15 minutes of softening for shame, on a train journey.

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Guide3 min read

How to stop scrolling in bed — what actually helps, when you are at home and cannot settle

The phone is not the problem. The fact that it is within reach and there is nothing else to do is the problem. Here is what actually helps.

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Focus25 min

Focus session for reading: 25 minutes, a fan or air conditioner, when you are not in the mood

25 minutes of reading, with a fan or air conditioner and a note on what to do when you drift.

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Breathing3 min

Box breathing exercise for heavy days — when your attention is scattered

4 · 4 · 4 · 4 breathing: four equal sides, like tracing a square.

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Meditation12 min

Test anxiety: 12-minute grounding meditation, in the mid-afternoon

12 minutes to meet test anxiety with less of a fight. A grounding practice, in the mid-afternoon.

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Meditation3 min

Tension headaches: 3-minute gratitude meditation, in a waiting room

Nothing to learn and nothing to fix: 3 minutes of gratitude for tension headaches, in a waiting room.

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Guide3 min read

What to do when everything is too much, without the usual advice, after eating too much

Overwhelm is not a lack of capacity. It is too many open loops and no order to them. The fix is unglamorous.

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Focus45 min

Focus session for thesis writing: 45 minutes, distant thunder, when you are somewhere unfamiliar

45 minutes of thesis writing, with distant thunder and a note on what to do when you drift.

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Breathing2 min

Tight box breathing exercise for a noisy room — when you have been meaning to start

4 · 1 · 4 · 1 breathing: barely any hold, for people who dislike holding.

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Meditation20 min

20-minute letting go meditation for burnout, on the way out of work

20 minutes to meet burnout with less of a fight. A letting go practice, on the way out of work.

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Meditation7 min

7-minute breathing meditation for anticipatory anxiety, on exam day

Nothing to learn and nothing to fix: 7 minutes of breathing for anticipatory anxiety, on exam day.

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Guide3 min read

When the inner voice will not let something go — what to try first, if you are tired of apps

Self-criticism usually repeats because it is trying to prevent something. Arguing with it does not work. Understanding it sometimes does.

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Focus90 min

Focus session for design work: 90 minutes, café murmur, when you feel restless rather than tired

90 minutes of design work, with café murmur and a note on what to do when you drift.

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Breathing2 min

3-6 breathing exercise for being unwell — before something difficult

A 3 · 6 rhythm — a gentle two-to-one ratio.

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Meditation5 min

Meditation for waking at 3am: 5-minute gratitude session, in the evening

5 minutes to meet waking at 3am with less of a fight. A gratitude practice, in the evening.

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Meditation12 min

12-minute guided grounding practice for irritability — before a presentation

For the times before a presentation when irritability takes up more room than you would like — 12 minutes, grounding.

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Guide3 min read

Working in a noisy place without losing your mind, in the order that helps, if you have done this a hundred times

You cannot always control the noise. You can control what your attention does with it, and what you put in your ears.

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Focus25 min

25-minute decluttering session with a fireplace and a timer, when nothing else has worked today

Sit down, press start, and move things out for 25 minutes. One pomodoro, long enough to get somewhere and short enough to start.

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Breathing3 min

How to use 3-5-7 breathing for a ten-minute window, when the house is busy

A 3 · 5 · 7 rhythm — a staircase down: three, five, seven.

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