sleep · 3 min
Insomnia: 3-minute breathing meditation, in the evening
A 3-minute breathing session for insomnia, in the evening. No app, no account — press start.
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About this practice
A 3-minute breathing session for insomnia, in the evening. No app, no account — press start. A guided session of about 3 minutes, suited to all levels. Nothing is recorded and no account is needed.
What this works on: insomnia
Insomnia is often maintained by the fear of not sleeping. Anticipating a bad night raises arousal at bedtime, which produces the bad night.
It tends to show up as:
- Dreading bedtime
- Hours awake with a busy mind
- Sleeping worse as the week goes on
Removing the pressure to sleep is the active ingredient. This gives you something to do that is not trying.
Doing this in the evening
- Dim the lights first — bright light works against the point
- Put the phone in another room
- Keep it slow rather than interesting
Something too engaging will wake you up rather than wind you down.
How breathing works
A breathing practice uses the breath as the object of attention and as the control lever. Because exhaling slows the heart through the vagus nerve, it acts on the nervous system directly rather than through thinking.
- Keep the exhale longer than the inhale — that is the active ingredient
- Count the exhales and start again whenever you lose count
- Do not force depth; let the breath find its own level
What happens, minute by minute
- 0:00Let the first out-breath be longer than the in-breath. Nothing dramatic, just longer.
- 0:13If the breath feels tight, do not deepen it. Just watch it, and let it find its own depth.
- 0:29We'll start broad and narrow down. Nothing sudden is coming.
- 0:41Feel the air move past your upper lip. It's the coolest spot on the way in.
- 0:56Breathe in through your nose and out through your nose, if that's comfortable.
- 1:09Move to your forehead. Let it be smooth instead of gathered.
- 1:21If the wide-awake mind at 2am has been with you all day, it is probably tired too. Let it rest alongside you.
- 1:39Notice where the counting of hours until morning lives in your body. Chest, throat, stomach. Rest your attention there without trying to change it.
- 1:58Let the breath get soft, the way it goes when someone is reading beside you.
- 2:12Nothing about the frustration of not sleeping has to be explained or justified in this room.
- 2:27If you feel restless, that's a feeling, not a failure.
- 2:39Follow the air from the nostrils down to the belly, then back out. One full trip at a time.
- 2:55Come back slowly. There's no prize for finishing fast.
Questions people ask
What does this session help with?
Insomnia is often maintained by the fear of not sleeping. Anticipating a bad night raises arousal at bedtime, which produces the bad night. Removing the pressure to sleep is the active ingredient. This gives you something to do that is not trying.
Where and when should I do this one?
Dim the lights first — bright light works against the point. Something too engaging will wake you up rather than wind you down.
What actually happens during the 3 minutes?
A breathing practice uses the breath as the object of attention and as the control lever. Because exhaling slows the heart through the vagus nerve, it acts on the nervous system directly rather than through thinking.
Meditation is a practice, not a treatment. If you are dealing with ongoing distress, please also reach out to a professional.
If this one is not quite right, try Letting go meditation for mindfulness (20 min), on the road, Breathing meditation for loneliness (12 min), at bedtime or Letting go for tired eyes: 3 minutes, when it all piles up.