Everything, 30 at a time

Every meditation, breathing exercise, sleep story, focus session, guide and essay on SoftlyStill — 6,878 pieces, newest first, 30 to a page.

Meditation10 min

10-minute softening meditation for contentment, before you talk

Nothing to learn and nothing to fix: 10 minutes of softening for contentment, before you talk.

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Meditation3 min

3-minute gratitude meditation for the inner critic, in the office

Slow, spoken guidance for the inner critic. A gratitude session you can do in the office.

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Guide3 min read

When grief arrives out of nowhere — what actually works, when you cannot concentrate on anything else

Grief does not follow a schedule. The waves come less often over time, but they do not stop, and that is not a failure.

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Sleep12 min

The house after everyone is asleep — a slow story for the end of the day, when you are short on time — for a restless night

The hour when the house belongs to nobody and nothing needs doing.

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Focus90 min

90-minute coding session with café murmur and a timer, if you are sceptical about all of this

Sit down, press start, and work through the problem for 90 minutes. One full ultradian cycle, for work that needs a long runway.

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Breathing2 min

Coherent 4-4 breathing: 5 rounds for creative work, if you have done this a hundred times

A four and four, if five feels like a stretch pattern, counted for you on screen.

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Meditation15 min

15-minute guided self-compassion practice for panic — after a conflict

Nothing to learn and nothing to fix: 15 minutes of self-compassion for panic, after a conflict.

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Meditation7 min

7-minute guided body scan practice for tight shoulders and neck — on a meeting break

Slow, spoken guidance for tight shoulders and neck. A body scan session you can do on a meeting break.

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Guide3 min read

How to stop scrolling in bed — a short, honest guide, when you have been on screens all day

The phone is not the problem. The fact that it is within reach and there is nothing else to do is the problem. Here is what actually helps.

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Sleep20 min

The night train, when you have just finished work — for winding down

Somewhere between two cities, in the dark, where nobody needs anything from you.

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Focus25 min

A 25-minute block for practising an instrument, with a fireplace, when you are cold and want to be warm

A single 25-minute block for practising an instrument — slowly, with the metronome.

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Breathing2 min

Box breathing: 5 rounds for Friday evening, when you have already had a long week

A four equal sides, like tracing a square pattern, counted for you on screen.

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Meditation3 min

Noting for loneliness: 3 minutes, after bad news

Nothing to learn and nothing to fix: 3 minutes of noting for loneliness, after bad news.

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Meditation12 min

Public speaking fear: 12-minute softening meditation, before a busy day

Slow, spoken guidance for public speaking fear. A softening session you can do before a busy day.

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Guide3 min read

What to do when everything is too much — a straightforward guide, when you have woken up too early

Overwhelm is not a lack of capacity. It is too many open loops and no order to them. The fix is unglamorous.

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Sleep10 min

Sleep story: a caravan by the sea, when you want to finish something — for a racing mind

Thin walls, wind outside, and the sound of shingle about fifty metres away.

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Focus45 min

A 45-minute block for exam revision, with distant traffic, when you only have a few minutes

A single 45-minute block for exam revision — recall rather than re-reading.

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Breathing2 min

Tight box breathing exercise for physical discomfort — on a low-energy afternoon

A barely any hold, for people who dislike holding pattern, counted for you on screen.

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Meditation7 min

Body scan meditation for falling asleep (7 min), when nothing went right

Nothing to learn and nothing to fix: 7 minutes of body scan for falling asleep, when nothing went right.

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Meditation20 min

20-minute self-compassion meditation for deadline pressure, in the late afternoon

Slow, spoken guidance for deadline pressure. A self-compassion session you can do in the late afternoon.

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Guide3 min read

When the inner voice will not let something go, when you need something unremarkable

Self-criticism usually repeats because it is trying to prevent something. Arguing with it does not work. Understanding it sometimes does.

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Sleep12 min

An attic room — a slow story for the end of the day, when nothing else has worked today — for a restless night

Sloping ceiling, rain on the roof a foot above your head.

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Focus90 min

A 90-minute block for data work, with a fan or air conditioner, when you want something simple

A single 90-minute block for data work — checking as you go.

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Breathing2 min

3-6 breathing exercise for exam nerves — when you cannot concentrate on anything else

A a gentle two-to-one ratio pattern, counted for you on screen.

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Meditation12 min

Meditation for low energy: 12-minute softening session, when you are at your limit

For the times when you are at your limit when low energy takes up more room than you would like — 12 minutes, softening.

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Meditation5 min

Meditation for better sleep: 5-minute noting session, on a Saturday morning

Slow, spoken guidance for better sleep. A noting session you can do on a Saturday morning.

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Guide3 min read

Working in a noisy place without losing your mind — a practical guide, after a difficult conversation

You cannot always control the noise. You can control what your attention does with it, and what you put in your ears.

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Sleep20 min

A lighthouse at the end of a long day, after a difficult conversation — for winding down

One light turning, a kettle, and weather you are on the right side of.

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Focus25 min

25-minute focus session for editing with a washing machine, if you have five quiet minutes

25 minutes on editing — the boring pass that makes it readable. One pomodoro, long enough to get somewhere and short enough to start.

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Breathing2 min

How to use 3-5-7 breathing for the morning, when you have been on screens all day

A a staircase down: three, five, seven pattern, counted for you on screen.

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