Everything, 30 at a time

Every meditation, breathing exercise, sleep story, focus session, guide and essay on SoftlyStill — 6,878 pieces, newest first, 30 to a page.

Meditation3 min

Gratitude meditation for self-criticism (3 min), at night

Slow, spoken guidance for self-criticism. A gratitude session you can do at night.

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Guide3 min read

Tired eyes after a long day of screens, for people who have tried everything, on a day that started badly

Eye strain is mostly about distance and blinking, not about blue light glasses.

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Focus90 min

A 90-minute block for thesis writing, with plain quiet, when you have been meaning to start

A single 90-minute block for thesis writing — sections, not the whole thing.

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Breathing2 min

Coherent 5-5 breath (5 · 5) for the early months, after a long day

5 · 5 breathing: five seconds in, five seconds out — about six breaths a minute.

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Meditation15 min

Meditation for anxiety: 15-minute self-compassion session, before you talk

Nothing to learn and nothing to fix: 15 minutes of self-compassion for anxiety, before you talk.

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Meditation7 min

Meditation for physical tension: 7-minute body scan session, in the middle of the night

Slow, spoken guidance for physical tension. A body scan session you can do in the middle of the night.

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Guide3 min read

Why your weekend does not feel like rest — a short read, when you are at home and cannot settle

Rest is not the absence of work. If the weekend is full of decisions and obligations, it does not restore anything.

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Focus45 min

45-minute focus session for design work with a train carriage, when nothing else has worked today

45 minutes on design work — rough versions first. A single class period, the length most people can hold before the quality drops.

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Breathing2 min

6-2-6-2 breathing — 6 · 2 · 6 · 2 — for the commute, when you are waiting for something

A 6 · 2 · 6 · 2 rhythm — even and rhythmic, with brief holds on both sides.

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Meditation3 min

3-minute noting meditation for sadness, before a difficult talk

For the times before a difficult talk when sadness takes up more room than you would like — 3 minutes, noting.

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Meditation12 min

Softening for test anxiety: 12 minutes, on a meeting break

Slow, spoken guidance for test anxiety. A softening session you can do on a meeting break.

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Guide3 min read

How to get through the first hour without your phone, without the usual nonsense, after eating too much

The first hour sets the tone for attention all day. You do not need willpower — you need the phone to be somewhere else.

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Focus50 min

50-minute focus session for decluttering with birds at dawn, when you are on your own

50 minutes on decluttering — one surface at a time. Fifty minutes, the length of a therapy hour, with ten minutes off afterwards.

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Breathing3 min

Slow box breathing — 5 · 5 · 5 · 5 — for Sunday evening, when you are too tired to try hard

A 5 · 5 · 5 · 5 rhythm — a wider square, once four feels comfortable.

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Meditation7 min

7-minute guided body scan practice for sleep — after an argument

For the times after an argument when sleep takes up more room than you would like — 7 minutes, body scan.

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Meditation20 min

Self-compassion meditation for burnout (20 min), on your commute

Slow, spoken guidance for burnout. A self-compassion session you can do on your commute.

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Guide3 min read

How to study when you cannot concentrate — the version for a bad week, if you are tired of apps

Concentration is usually a problem of task size, not willpower. Shrink the task until starting feels almost silly.

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Focus25 min

Deep work timer: 25 minutes of admin and email (white noise), if you are fitting this around other people

One block of admin and email with white noise underneath. One pomodoro, long enough to get somewhere and short enough to start.

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Breathing2 min

4-6 breathing — 4 · 6 — for a stolen moment of caregiving, when you are not sure this will work

A 4 · 6 rhythm — in for four, out for six.

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Meditation12 min

Morning energy: 12-minute softening meditation, when the news hits hard

For the times when the news hits hard when morning energy takes up more room than you would like — 12 minutes, softening.

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Meditation5 min

Waking at 3am: 5-minute noting meditation, ahead of a full day

Slow, spoken guidance for waking at 3am. A noting session you can do ahead of a full day.

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Guide3 min read

A wind-down that starts before you are tired — explained without jargon, if you have done this a hundred times

Waiting until you feel sleepy usually means waiting until midnight. The wind-down is what creates the sleepiness.

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Focus45 min

Deep work timer: 45 minutes of portfolio work (a stream), when you have more time than usual

One block of portfolio work with a stream underneath. A single class period, the length most people can hold before the quality drops.

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Breathing2 min

4-2-6 breathing for the middle of the night, on a day that started badly

A 4 · 2 · 6 rhythm — a short hold in the middle, a long way out.

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Meditation20 min

20-minute self-compassion meditation for gratitude, after a horrible day

For the times after a horrible day when gratitude takes up more room than you would like — 20 minutes, self-compassion.

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Meditation10 min

10-minute body scan meditation for self-criticism, at the end of the day

10 minutes to meet self-criticism with less of a fight. A body scan practice, at the end of the day.

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Guide3 min read

Waking up anxious for no obvious reason — what actually works, when you have already had a long week

Morning anxiety is common and usually chemical rather than psychological. Cortisol rises steeply in the first hour after waking.

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Focus90 min

Deep work timer: 90 minutes of problem solving (rain on a window), when you have been putting it off

One block of problem solving with rain on a window underneath. One full ultradian cycle, for work that needs a long runway.

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Breathing2 min

Coherent 6-6 breathing for travel days, when you are at home and cannot settle

A 6 · 6 rhythm — six and six, the slower end of coherent breathing.

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Meditation5 min

Meditation for anxiety: 5-minute breathing session, before sleep

For the times before sleep when anxiety takes up more room than you would like — 5 minutes, breathing.

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