Everything, 30 at a time

Every meditation, breathing exercise, sleep story, focus session, guide and essay on SoftlyStill — 6,878 pieces, newest first, 30 to a page.

Guide3 min read

The five minutes after a difficult meeting, without the usual advice, when you have more time than usual

Back-to-back meetings leave no room to come down. Five deliberate minutes changes the next hour.

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Sleep20 min

An attic room (a sleep story), when you have been meaning to start — for jet lag

Sloping ceiling, rain on the roof a foot above your head.

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Focus50 min

50-minute focus session for reading with a fan or air conditioner, if you are fitting this around other people

50 minutes on reading — pages rather than paragraphs. Fifty minutes, the length of a therapy hour, with ten minutes off afterwards.

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Breathing2 min

4-6 breathing exercise for a long wait — when nothing else has worked today

Rounds of 4 · 6, with the counting done for you.

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Breathing2 min

Physiological sigh — 2 · 6 — for a hard week, when the weather has kept you inside

Rounds of 2 · 6, with the counting done for you.

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Meditation20 min

Softening meditation for restlessness at night (20 min), on exam day

Slow, spoken guidance for restlessness at night. A softening session you can do on exam day.

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Meditation10 min

Noting meditation for anger (10 min), in the middle of the night

Nothing to learn and nothing to fix: 10 minutes of noting for anger, in the middle of the night.

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Guide3 min read

What to do when you wake at 3am — what to try first, when you have been putting it off

Waking in the middle of the night is normal. What turns it into an hour of lying awake is the reaction to it.

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Sleep10 min

Sleep story: a lighthouse at the end of a long day, when you need something unremarkable — for a night when you do not want to think

One light turning, a kettle, and weather you are on the right side of.

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Focus90 min

90-minute focus session for thesis writing with distant thunder, when you have more time than usual

90 minutes on thesis writing — sections, not the whole thing. One full ultradian cycle, for work that needs a long runway.

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Breathing2 min

4-2-6 breathing exercise for creative work — when you are on your own

Rounds of 4 · 2 · 6, with the counting done for you.

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Breathing2 min

Gentle box breathing — 3 · 3 · 3 · 3 — for a lonely evening, when you are short on time

Rounds of 3 · 3 · 3 · 3, with the counting done for you.

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Meditation5 min

The afternoon slump: 5-minute self-compassion meditation, before a presentation

5 minutes to meet the afternoon slump with less of a fight. A self-compassion practice, before a presentation.

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Meditation15 min

Meditation for brain fog: 15-minute body scan session, beside your desk

Nothing to learn and nothing to fix: 15 minutes of body scan for brain fog, beside your desk.

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Guide3 min read

Preparing for a conversation you are dreading — an honest guide, if you are sceptical about all of this

Most dread is about the first thirty seconds, not the conversation. Prepare for those and the rest gets easier.

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Sleep15 min

A bus at night, if you are sceptical about all of this — for waking too early

Upper deck, front seat, a city going past that you do not have to join.

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Focus45 min

Deep work timer: 45 minutes of design work (café murmur), when you have been putting it off

One block of design work with café murmur underneath. A single class period, the length most people can hold before the quality drops.

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Breathing2 min

Coherent 6-6 breathing exercise for Monday morning — if you are fitting this around other people

Simple counts — 6 · 6 — and a circle that keeps time.

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Breathing2 min

4-7-8 breathing for a hard conversation, when you have been putting it off

Simple counts — 4 · 7 · 8 — and a circle that keeps time.

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Meditation10 min

10-minute breathing meditation for being present, before a hard conversation

10 minutes to meet being present with less of a fight. A breathing practice, before a hard conversation.

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Meditation3 min

3-minute softening meditation for perfectionism, between meetings

Nothing to learn and nothing to fix: 3 minutes of softening for perfectionism, between meetings.

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Guide3 min read

When to drink coffee so it does not ruin your sleep, step by step, when you are cold and want to be warm

Caffeine has a long tail. The cup at 3pm is still in your system at 9pm, whether you feel it or not.

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Sleep20 min

A field under snow (a sleep story), when you are not sure this will work — for the hours after a late shift

Everything muffled, everything white, and no tracks but yours.

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Focus50 min

Deep work timer: 50 minutes of decluttering (a fireplace), if you are sceptical about all of this

One block of decluttering with a fireplace underneath. Fifty minutes, the length of a therapy hour, with ten minutes off afterwards.

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Breathing2 min

How to use Quick 2-1-2-1 breathing for heavy days, when you have more time than usual

Simple counts — 2 · 1 · 2 · 1 — and a circle that keeps time.

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Breathing2 min

5-7 breathing for a big decision, if you are sceptical about all of this

Simple counts — 5 · 7 — and a circle that keeps time.

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Meditation15 min

15-minute guided grounding practice for health anxiety — when the news hits hard

15 minutes to meet health anxiety with less of a fight. A grounding practice, when the news hits hard.

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Meditation7 min

7-minute guided gratitude practice for jaw tension — on the way in

Nothing to learn and nothing to fix: 7 minutes of gratitude for jaw tension, on the way in.

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Guide3 min read

Using your body to come down after something stressful — what works and what does not, when you only have a few minutes

After a stress response, the body is left with fuel it did not use. Some of the recovery is physical, not mental.

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Sleep10 min

A fire dying down — a slow story for the end of the day, when you have just finished work — for a racing mind

The last hour of a fire, when it stops being a fire and becomes warmth.

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