Guide · after-work · 3 min read
The five minutes after a difficult meeting — the essentials, when the weather has kept you inside
Back-to-back meetings leave no room to come down. Five deliberate minutes changes the next hour.
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Most of the usual advice misses the point. What follows is the version that survives contact with a real week.
Bad weather is a decent excuse to stay in and do this.
If you only do one thing from this page, do the first point below. It is first because it removes the most friction for the least effort.
What helps
Write down what actually happened, not what you felt about it. The two get mixed up within about ten minutes.
Do not go straight into the next thing. Even sixty seconds of standing up changes how you carry the last meeting into the next one.
Do not replay it in your head with better answers. That rehearsal is satisfying and completely useless.
What to do when it does not work
Move: stairs, a corridor, a walk to get water. The physical reset is faster than the mental one.
If you have to send a reply, draft it and wait an hour. Angry emails written in five minutes take weeks to undo.
If something was said that stung, note it and decide to deal with it tomorrow. Most things look smaller after a night.
Questions people ask
Should I send a follow-up straight away?
A factual one, yes. An emotional one, no. Write it, then leave it for an hour.
Written for people who want the practical version. No accounts, no tracking, no newsletter wall.
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