Breathing exercise · 4 · 4 · 6 · 2

Uneven box breathing — 4 · 4 · 6 · 2 — for a lonely evening, when the house is busy

Simple counts — 4 · 4 · 6 · 2 — and a circle that keeps time.

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Follow the circle. It counts for you.

How it works

Count to 4 on the way in, 4 at the top, 6 on the way out, 2 at the bottom. Repeat. It works with other people in the house. You do not need silence. Notice what's solid: the floor, the chair, your own weight.

Why it can help

Because the counts are the same in and out, your body does not have to decide anything. It just follows.

The pattern, in seconds

PhaseLengthStarts at
Inhale4s0s
Hold4s4s
Exhale6s8s
Hold again2s14s

One round is 16 seconds. At the default 4 rounds this practice runs 64 seconds — about 1 minute — plus a breath or two of ordinary breathing between rounds.

Good for

  • before you walk into a room full of people
  • after a long drive, to shake off the alertness
  • when you wake at 3am and the room feels too quiet

Tips

  • There is no need to breathe deeply. Long and quiet is the aim.
  • Rest for a few seconds between rounds if the pattern feels demanding.
  • Never push through a hold. Coming out of it early is always the right call.

Please note

If holding your breath makes you dizzy or uncomfortable, skip the holds entirely and breathe slowly and evenly instead. Never push through lightheadedness. If you are pregnant, or manage a heart, blood pressure or lung condition, check with a doctor before doing breath holds.