energy · 3 min
Letting go for fatigue: 3 minutes, before a difficult talk
When fatigue shows up before a difficult talk, this 3-minute letting go session gives you somewhere to put it down.
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About this practice
When fatigue shows up before a difficult talk, this 3-minute letting go session gives you somewhere to put it down. A guided session of about 3 minutes, suited to all levels. Nothing is recorded and no account is needed.
What this works on: fatigue
Fatigue is deep tiredness of the kind that sleep does not fully clear, usually after a stretch of sustained demand.
It tends to show up as:
- Tired behind the eyes all day
- Heavy limbs
- Rest that does not refresh
Here the practice should be restful rather than stimulating. Quiet and unambitious is the right dose.
Doing this before a hard conversation
- Do it before, not during, and again after if it went badly
- Decide your one non-negotiable sentence beforehand
- Plan to let the other person speak first
Being settled makes it easier to listen rather than to defend. That is usually what the conversation needs.
How letting go works
Letting go is about loosening grip rather than dropping things. It works on the effort attached to a problem — the holding, rehearsing and bracing — which is separable from the problem itself.
- Pick one thing you are gripping and loosen a single finger
- Release the effort with the exhale, not the issue
- Set down temporarily; you can pick it up again after
What happens, minute by minute
- 0:00Let the first out-breath be longer than the in-breath. Nothing dramatic, just longer.
- 0:13There's no need to try harder than this.
- 0:24Bring your attention to where your body meets the surface underneath you.
- 0:37Count down from ten, one number per exhale.
- 0:48Feel the pause at the top of the in-breath. It's shorter than you think.
- 1:02Notice your elbows. Odd things to have, but there they are.
- 1:14You do not have to win against the heaviness behind your eyes. You only have to breathe until the next moment arrives.
- 1:32Picture the end of the reserves as a weather front passing over. You are not the weather. You are the sky it moves through.
- 1:51Notice the first breath of the day versus this one. They're the same mechanism.
- 2:05Remind yourself, slowly: I am safe in this moment, even while the bone-deep tiredness is here. Safety and difficulty can share a room.
- 2:23You might be planning something. Notice the planning, then come back.
- 2:35Let this be easy, if easy is available.
- 2:46Let the last minute of quiet be the last minute of quiet.
Questions people ask
What does this session help with?
Fatigue is deep tiredness of the kind that sleep does not fully clear, usually after a stretch of sustained demand. Here the practice should be restful rather than stimulating. Quiet and unambitious is the right dose.
Where and when should I do this one?
Do it before, not during, and again after if it went badly. Being settled makes it easier to listen rather than to defend. That is usually what the conversation needs.
What actually happens during the 3 minutes?
Letting go is about loosening grip rather than dropping things. It works on the effort attached to a problem — the holding, rehearsing and bracing — which is separable from the problem itself.
Meditation is a practice, not a treatment. If you are dealing with ongoing distress, please also reach out to a professional.