body · 3 min
Grounding for tension headaches: 3 minutes, in the middle of the night
A 3-minute grounding session for tension headaches, in the middle of the night. No app, no account — press start.
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About this practice
A 3-minute grounding session for tension headaches, in the middle of the night. No app, no account — press start. A guided session of about 3 minutes, suited to all levels. Nothing is recorded and no account is needed.
What this works on: tension headaches
Tension headaches follow a band of tightness across the forehead and around the skull, usually the product of long staring, jaw clenching and neck position.
It tends to show up as:
- A band of pressure across the forehead
- Pressure behind the eyes
- Ache worsening through the day
Softening the jaw, eyes and neck interrupts the pattern early. Once a tension headache settles in it is harder to shift.
Doing this at 3am
- Do not check the time and do not turn on a light
- Stay lying down if you can — sitting up makes it harder to return to sleep
- Do not try to solve anything that arrives at this hour
Problems at 3am feel enormous because of chemistry, not because they are actually bigger. Defer them.
How grounding works
Grounding brings attention to physical contact and the immediate environment. It works on the principle that the body cannot be somewhere else, so contact with the surface you are on is always available as an anchor.
- Feel the contact points — feet, seat, back — and let them take your weight
- Use the senses deliberately: what you can see, hear, touch
- Return to solidity whenever attention drifts
What happens, minute by minute
- 0:00Check your hands. Are they doing anything? Let them stop.
- 0:12Feel the contact points — feet, seat, back. That contact is the whole anchor.
- 0:26Imagine your thoughts as traffic on a road you're standing beside. You don't have to flag any of it down.
- 0:43Breathe in for four, out for six, if you'd like something to count.
- 0:56Let the exhale fall out rather than pushing it.
- 1:07Notice your shins, which take small knocks all day and never complain.
- 1:20Notice how the pressure building behind the eyes changes shape when you stop resisting it. Usually it gets smaller, not bigger.
- 1:37You are allowed to be unimpressed by the ache from a long staring day. Indifference is a legitimate response.
- 1:53Let your belly rise first, then your chest, then the tops of your lungs.
- 2:07Feel the weight of the band around the forehead somewhere specific, then let the floor take a share of it.
- 2:24If nothing much is happening, that's not a problem. Nothing much is often the point.
- 2:38Name what you can see, hear and touch. Counting senses is not a distraction; it is the practice.
- 2:54Stretch whatever feels stiff, then carry on.
Questions people ask
What does this session help with?
Tension headaches follow a band of tightness across the forehead and around the skull, usually the product of long staring, jaw clenching and neck position. Softening the jaw, eyes and neck interrupts the pattern early. Once a tension headache settles in it is harder to shift.
Where and when should I do this one?
Do not check the time and do not turn on a light. Problems at 3am feel enormous because of chemistry, not because they are actually bigger. Defer them.
What actually happens during the 3 minutes?
Grounding brings attention to physical contact and the immediate environment. It works on the principle that the body cannot be somewhere else, so contact with the surface you are on is always available as an anchor.
Meditation is a practice, not a treatment. If you are dealing with ongoing distress, please also reach out to a professional.
If this one is not quite right, try 3-minute noting meditation for contentment, at 3am, 20-minute body scan meditation for health anxiety, late at night or 10-minute softening meditation for frustration, in a waiting room.