anxiety · 3 min
Gratitude meditation for anticipatory anxiety (3 min), on the way in
When anticipatory anxiety shows up on the way in, this 3-minute gratitude session gives you somewhere to put it down.
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About this practice
When anticipatory anxiety shows up on the way in, this 3-minute gratitude session gives you somewhere to put it down. A guided session of about 3 minutes, suited to all levels. Nothing is recorded and no account is needed.
What this works on: anticipatory anxiety
Dread of an upcoming event is often heavier than the event itself. The waiting period keeps the body in low-level alert for days.
It tends to show up as:
- Stomach dropping when you remember what is coming
- Sleep getting worse as the date approaches
- Wanting to cancel to get relief
The anticipation is a state, not a warning. Practising being in the present while the dread is present teaches the body it can wait without bracing.
Doing this on your commute
- Headphones on, eyes open or closed depending on your comfort
- Keep one part of your attention on your stop
- Do it standing if sitting is not possible — nobody is watching
Commuting time is already dead time. Nothing is being given up.
How gratitude works
Gratitude here is an attention practice, not a demand for a positive mood. Attention defaults to threats because they are urgent, so pleasant and ordinary things get skipped simply for being safe.
- Pick one ordinary thing rather than something impressive
- Stay with it for two breaths — depth beats length of list
- Do not aim at feeling grateful; aim at noticing
What happens, minute by minute
- 0:00Take a moment to notice the room behind you, without turning around.
- 0:13There is no need to feel grateful. Just look, and see what is actually there.
- 0:27Let your attention settle on the space between your nose and your upper lip, where the air passes.
- 0:43Let your ribs widen on the in-breath instead of your shoulders lifting.
- 0:56Let your breathing get quieter rather than deeper.
- 1:07Notice your breathing, without changing it.
- 1:17When the nervous hours before presses in, put a hand on your chest or your belly. Warmth and pressure are anchors your body already trusts.
- 1:36If the dread of an event that has not happened starts telling you a story, let the story finish without you adding to it.
- 1:55Let your shoulders stay still while your ribs move.
- 2:06You do not have to like the waiting that feels heavier than the thing to breathe through it. Liking was never the requirement.
- 2:24Notice the tone of your own inner voice. Is it kind?
- 2:36If nothing comes, notice that something did not go wrong. That also counts.
- 2:49Notice whether you feel any different. If not, that's also normal.
Questions people ask
What does this session help with?
Dread of an upcoming event is often heavier than the event itself. The waiting period keeps the body in low-level alert for days. The anticipation is a state, not a warning. Practising being in the present while the dread is present teaches the body it can wait without bracing.
Where and when should I do this one?
Headphones on, eyes open or closed depending on your comfort. Commuting time is already dead time. Nothing is being given up.
What actually happens during the 3 minutes?
Gratitude here is an attention practice, not a demand for a positive mood. Attention defaults to threats because they are urgent, so pleasant and ordinary things get skipped simply for being safe.
Meditation is a practice, not a treatment. If you are dealing with ongoing distress, please also reach out to a professional.
If this one is not quite right, try Noting meditation for waking up (20 min), on the train, Body scan for work stress: 12 minutes, before an interview or 12-minute guided grounding practice for fatigue — at 3pm.