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3-minute guided softening practice for jaw tension — on the way in
A 3-minute softening session for jaw tension, on the way in. No app, no account — press start.
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About this practice
A 3-minute softening session for jaw tension, on the way in. No app, no account — press start. A guided session of about 3 minutes, suited to all levels. Nothing is recorded and no account is needed.
What this works on: jaw tension
The jaw is a stress-holding site for many people, often without awareness until it aches. Grinding at night and clenching by day are the same response.
It tends to show up as:
- Clenched teeth, especially in the evening
- Aching or clicking jaw joints
- A dull headache at the temples
Repeatedly checking and softening the jaw through a session teaches you to catch the clench during the day.
Doing this on your commute
- Headphones on, eyes open or closed depending on your comfort
- Keep one part of your attention on your stop
- Do it standing if sitting is not possible — nobody is watching
Commuting time is already dead time. Nothing is being given up.
How softening works
Softening is the practice of releasing held tension degree by degree rather than all at once. It targets the physical grip — shoulders, jaw, gut — that persists long after the stressor has passed.
- Soften one place per exhale rather than everything at once
- Let warmth and gravity do the work instead of muscular effort
- If a place will not soften, leave it and go somewhere that will
What happens, minute by minute
- 0:00Let your belly be soft. Not sucked in. Just soft.
- 0:12If a place will not soften, leave it alone and go somewhere that will. It often follows.
- 0:27Everything that happens in the next few minutes is allowed to happen.
- 0:40Let your breathing get quieter rather than deeper.
- 0:51Let your breathing be boring. Boring is good here.
- 1:02Feel the tops of your thighs.
- 1:12You do not have to solve the clenched teeth at night in these few minutes. Your only job is to keep breathing while it is here.
- 1:31Let the exhale carry a little of the tight jaw that speaks for your stress with it. Not all of it. Just a little, one breath at a time.
- 1:52Let the in-breath be short and the out-breath unhurried.
- 2:03You do not have to win against the grinding that follows worry. You only have to breathe until the next moment arrives.
- 2:21Notice if you've been frowning at your own thoughts.
- 2:32With every out-breath, soften one place. Shoulders first, then jaw, then the space behind the eyes.
- 2:47When you're ready, look around properly.
Questions people ask
What does this session help with?
The jaw is a stress-holding site for many people, often without awareness until it aches. Grinding at night and clenching by day are the same response. Repeatedly checking and softening the jaw through a session teaches you to catch the clench during the day.
Where and when should I do this one?
Headphones on, eyes open or closed depending on your comfort. Commuting time is already dead time. Nothing is being given up.
What actually happens during the 3 minutes?
Softening is the practice of releasing held tension degree by degree rather than all at once. It targets the physical grip — shoulders, jaw, gut — that persists long after the stressor has passed.
Meditation is a practice, not a treatment. If you are dealing with ongoing distress, please also reach out to a professional.
If this one is not quite right, try 15-minute guided body scan practice for anticipatory anxiety — at the weekend, 3-minute noting meditation for sadness, before a difficult talk or Letting go for overwhelm: 3 minutes, when the news hits hard.