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3-minute guided breathing practice for tension headaches — before a busy day
Slow, spoken guidance for tension headaches. A breathing session you can do before a busy day.
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About this practice
Slow, spoken guidance for tension headaches. A breathing session you can do before a busy day. A guided session of about 3 minutes, suited to all levels. Nothing is recorded and no account is needed.
What this works on: tension headaches
Tension headaches follow a band of tightness across the forehead and around the skull, usually the product of long staring, jaw clenching and neck position.
It tends to show up as:
- A band of pressure across the forehead
- Pressure behind the eyes
- Ache worsening through the day
Softening the jaw, eyes and neck interrupts the pattern early. Once a tension headache settles in it is harder to shift.
Doing this before a busy day
- Do it before the first message or notification
- Aim for steadiness rather than energy
- Decide the first task afterwards, not during
The point is to begin without already being behind, not to prepare for every possibility.
How breathing works
A breathing practice uses the breath as the object of attention and as the control lever. Because exhaling slows the heart through the vagus nerve, it acts on the nervous system directly rather than through thinking.
- Keep the exhale longer than the inhale — that is the active ingredient
- Count the exhales and start again whenever you lose count
- Do not force depth; let the breath find its own level
What happens, minute by minute
- 0:00Start by hearing the furthest sound you can find.
- 0:11Follow the air from the nostrils down to the belly, then back out. One full trip at a time.
- 0:27Nothing here needs to be pleasant. Neutral is fine. Dull is fine.
- 0:40Let the in-breath be short and the out-breath unhurried.
- 0:51Follow one full breath from the moment it starts to the moment it ends.
- 1:05Feel the outline of yourself, from the top of your head to your heels.
- 1:19Notice how the ache from a long staring day changes shape when you stop resisting it. Usually it gets smaller, not bigger.
- 1:37the band around the forehead may quiet down, or it may not. Either is fine. We are practising staying, not performing calm.
- 1:55Let the breath be shallow if shallow is what your body wants.
- 2:08You have been carrying the pressure building behind the eyes for a while. You can set it down for the length of this session and pick it up after.
- 2:29Your mind will leave about a hundred times. Come back about a hundred times.
- 2:43Your anchor for the next few minutes is the breath itself. Nothing else needs following.
- 2:57Let your jaw, shoulders and hands be loose as you finish.
Questions people ask
What does this session help with?
Tension headaches follow a band of tightness across the forehead and around the skull, usually the product of long staring, jaw clenching and neck position. Softening the jaw, eyes and neck interrupts the pattern early. Once a tension headache settles in it is harder to shift.
Where and when should I do this one?
Do it before the first message or notification. The point is to begin without already being behind, not to prepare for every possibility.
What actually happens during the 3 minutes?
A breathing practice uses the breath as the object of attention and as the control lever. Because exhaling slows the heart through the vagus nerve, it acts on the nervous system directly rather than through thinking.
Meditation is a practice, not a treatment. If you are dealing with ongoing distress, please also reach out to a professional.
If this one is not quite right, try 15-minute self-compassion meditation for appreciation, ahead of a full day, Grounding for tension headaches: 10 minutes, in the late afternoon or Letting go for overwhelm: 3 minutes, when the news hits hard.