Guide · anxiety · 3 min read
Why anxiety shows up in your body first — the two-minute version, when the house is busy
Racing heart, tight chest, churning stomach. Understanding the mechanism makes the symptoms less frightening.
Start here
Every point here is written so that a bad week is still enough to manage it.
It works with other people in the house. You do not need silence.
If you only do one thing from this page, do the first point below. It is first because it removes the most friction for the least effort.
What helps
The symptoms usually peak within ten minutes and then fall, even if nothing is done. Knowing that the peak is short helps more than it sounds.
Checking your body for symptoms increases your sensitivity to them. This is why health anxiety tends to escalate.
The symptoms are uncomfortable but not dangerous. Chest tightness from anxiety does not damage the heart.
What to do when it does not work
The physical symptoms come from the same system that gets you out of the way of a car. It is fast, physical and not very smart.
Your heart rate rises, breathing speeds up and blood moves to your muscles. That is why your hands go cold and your chest feels tight.
Because the system is physical, physical things work on it: slow exhales, cold water, walking, moving your shoulders.
Questions people ask
Should I avoid the situations that trigger it?
Avoidance works in the short term and shrinks your world in the long term. This is the pattern CBT is designed to break.
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