Guide · after-work · 3 min read
The five minutes after a difficult meeting, step by step, when your attention is scattered
Back-to-back meetings leave no room to come down. Five deliberate minutes changes the next hour.
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None of this is glamorous. All of it is doable, which matters more.
Scattered attention is the raw material, not an obstacle.
If you only do one thing from this page, do the first point below. It is first because it removes the most friction for the least effort.
What helps
Write down what actually happened, not what you felt about it. The two get mixed up within about ten minutes.
Move: stairs, a corridor, a walk to get water. The physical reset is faster than the mental one.
Do not replay it in your head with better answers. That rehearsal is satisfying and completely useless.
What to do when it does not work
Do not go straight into the next thing. Even sixty seconds of standing up changes how you carry the last meeting into the next one.
If something was said that stung, note it and decide to deal with it tomorrow. Most things look smaller after a night.
If you have to send a reply, draft it and wait an hour. Angry emails written in five minutes take weeks to undo.
Questions people ask
What if I need to speak up in the meeting?
Prepare one sentence in advance. Most people who cannot speak up are missing an opening line, not courage.
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