Guide · body · 3 min read
Releasing tension you did not notice you were holding — the version that fits a real week, before something difficult
By mid-afternoon most people are holding their shoulders, jaw and hands without knowing. Here is a two-minute check.
Start here
Here is what tends to work, in the order that helps most.
It works best in the hour before something difficult.
If you only do one thing from this page, do the first point below. It is first because it removes the most friction for the least effort.
What helps
Stand up and walk to another room once an hour. Not for exercise — just so your body remembers it has legs.
Uncurl your hands. If you have been typing, your fingers are probably still curved around an invisible keyboard.
Drop your shoulders by a centimetre. Not a shrug in reverse — just let gravity do the work.
What to do when it does not work
Start with the jaw. Let your back teeth part slightly. Most people hold their jaw closed all day and only notice at night.
Change position every thirty minutes rather than trying to find the perfect posture. There is no correct way to sit for eight hours.
Check whether your tongue is pressed against the roof of your mouth. It usually is.
Questions people ask
Do I need a standing desk?
Only if you will actually change position. A standing desk you stand at for four hours is no better than a chair you never leave.
Written for people who want the practical version. No accounts, no tracking, no newsletter wall.
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