Breathing exercise · 4 · 4 · 8

Soft 4-7-8 breathing for a reset, when you are somewhere unfamiliar

The pattern is 4 · 4 · 8, which is the hold cut short, the long exhale kept.

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Follow the circle. It counts for you.

How it works

The ratio is 4 in, hold for 4, 8 out. Only the out-breath needs any attention. It travels well. Hotels, spare rooms, other people’s sofas. Notice what's solid: the floor, the chair, your own weight.

Why it can help

This ratio is used a lot before sleep, because a long exhale is what your breathing already does as you fall asleep.

The pattern, in seconds

PhaseLengthStarts at
Inhale4s0s
Hold4s4s
Exhale8s8s

One round is 16 seconds. At the default 5 rounds this practice runs 80 seconds — about 1 minute — plus a breath or two of ordinary breathing between rounds.

Good for

  • after an argument, before you decide what to say next
  • when your hands are cold and your chest is tight
  • just before you have to say something difficult

Tips

  • Notice which part of the breath feels tight, and reduce that count first.
  • Keep your jaw loose. People clench it without noticing during holds.
  • A hold should feel like a pause, not like running out of air.

Please note

If holding your breath makes you dizzy or uncomfortable, skip the holds entirely and breathe slowly and evenly instead. Never push through lightheadedness. If you are pregnant, or manage a heart, blood pressure or lung condition, check with a doctor before doing breath holds.