Breathing exercise · 3 · 3 · 3 · 3
Gentle box breathing: 6 rounds for a long wait, when you have been on screens all day
The pattern is 3 · 3 · 3 · 3, which is a smaller square, for when four counts feels long.
Follow the circle. It counts for you.
How it works
The pattern is a square — 3, 3, 3, 3 — and you trace it with your breath. After a day of screens, the eyes and the shoulders need this first. Start with what's physical. Everything else can wait.
Why it can help
The square gives you a way to notice when you have drifted: you lose count, and that tells you where your attention went.
The pattern, in seconds
| Phase | Length | Starts at |
|---|---|---|
| Inhale | 3s | 0s |
| Hold | 3s | 3s |
| Exhale | 3s | 6s |
| Hold again | 3s | 9s |
One round is 12 seconds. At the default 6 rounds this practice runs 72 seconds — about 1 minute — plus a breath or two of ordinary breathing between rounds.
Good for
- when the afternoon has gone flat
- in the two minutes after a difficult phone call
- in the minutes before an appointment you are dreading
Tips
- Try the same pattern at a different time of day and see whether it feels different.
- Count in your head, or let the circle on this page count for you.
- If holding for the full count feels tight, drop every number by one. The shape matters more than the size.
Please note
If holding your breath makes you dizzy or uncomfortable, skip the holds entirely and breathe slowly and evenly instead. Never push through lightheadedness. If you are pregnant, or manage a heart, blood pressure or lung condition, check with a doctor before doing breath holds.
If this rhythm does not suit you, try How to use Soft 4-7-8 breathing for physical discomfort, when you feel fine and want to stay that way, How to use Box breathing for the hours after people leave, when you are not in the mood or Box breathing for the commute, when you are on your own.