Breathing exercise · 5 · 5

Coherent 5-5 breathing for a hard conversation, when the day has been loud

Simple counts — 5 · 5 — and a circle that keeps time.

Ready0

Follow the circle. It counts for you.

How it works

In for 5, out for 5, with nothing held in between. Repeat for as long as you have. For days that were loud from the moment they started. Stay with what you can actually feel.

Why it can help

It is a good first exercise if every other pattern feels like too many instructions.

The pattern, in seconds

PhaseLengthStarts at
Inhale5s0s
Exhale5s5s

One round is 10 seconds. At the default 6 rounds this practice runs 60 seconds — about 1 minute — plus a breath or two of ordinary breathing between rounds.

Good for

  • after a long drive, to shake off the alertness
  • when the day has been fine but you still feel braced
  • as a way to mark the end of the working day

Tips

  • Aim for something you could keep up in a waiting room without anyone noticing.
  • There is no need to breathe deeply. Long and quiet is the aim.
  • There are no holds in this one, which makes it a good choice if breath-holding makes you anxious.

Please note

If holding your breath makes you dizzy or uncomfortable, skip the holds entirely and breathe slowly and evenly instead. Never push through lightheadedness. If you are pregnant, or manage a heart, blood pressure or lung condition, check with a doctor before doing breath holds.