Breathing exercise · 3 · 5 · 7
3-5-7 breathing — 3 · 5 · 7 — for a reset, when the day has been loud
A a staircase down: three, five, seven pattern, counted for you on screen.
Follow the circle. It counts for you.
How it works
In for 3, hold for 5, out for 7. The exhale is longer than the inhale — that is the entire instruction. For days that were loud from the moment they started. The body is the most reliable place to begin.
Why it can help
The long exhale is the working part. A slow out-breath is one of the few direct levers you have on your own arousal level.
The pattern, in seconds
| Phase | Length | Starts at |
|---|---|---|
| Inhale | 3s | 0s |
| Hold | 5s | 3s |
| Exhale | 7s | 8s |
One round is 15 seconds. At the default 12 rounds this practice runs 180 seconds — about 3 minutes — plus a breath or two of ordinary breathing between rounds.
Good for
- when you are the only person awake in the house
- in the two minutes after a difficult phone call
- just before you have to say something difficult
Tips
- Aim for something you could keep up in a waiting room without anyone noticing.
- Sit upright. Your lungs work better when you are not folded in half.
- Holding your breath is optional in every exercise here. You can always breathe through instead.
Please note
If holding your breath makes you dizzy or uncomfortable, skip the holds entirely and breathe slowly and evenly instead. Never push through lightheadedness. If you are pregnant, or manage a heart, blood pressure or lung condition, check with a doctor before doing breath holds.