anxiety · 3 min
Noting for public speaking fear: 3 minutes, beside your desk
Nothing to learn and nothing to fix: 3 minutes of noting for public speaking fear, beside your desk.
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About this practice
Nothing to learn and nothing to fix: 3 minutes of noting for public speaking fear, beside your desk. A guided session of about 3 minutes, suited to all levels. Nothing is recorded and no account is needed.
What this works on: public speaking fear
Speaking to a group triggers the same response as physical threat: shallow breathing, a dry mouth, and a voice that rises and speeds up.
It tends to show up as:
- Voice wobbling on the first sentence
- Speaking too fast to get it over with
- Shallow breathing high in the chest
Lengthening the exhale slows speech and steadies the voice. Physically, this is a breath practice before it is a confidence practice.
Doing this at your desk
- Feet flat, back supported, screen away from your eyeline
- You can do this with your eyes open if the office makes closing them awkward
- Unclench the jaw and drop the shoulders first, before anything else
Nobody needs to know you are doing it. Keep it invisible if that makes it possible.
How noting works
Noting is a technique from insight practice: when something arises, you give it a single plain label — thinking, hearing, planning — and return to the anchor. The label creates a small distance between you and the content.
- Use one word, not a sentence — explaining means you have joined in
- Label and return; do not follow the thought to see where it goes
- Drop the labelling if it becomes effortful and just follow the breath
What happens, minute by minute
- 0:00Let the floor take your weight through your feet, and stop holding yourself up for a second.
- 0:15You are the one noticing, not the thing being noticed. Stay on that side of the line.
- 0:30Everything that happens in the next few minutes is allowed to happen.
- 0:43Let the breath move at the speed of a sleeping person.
- 0:55Notice the breath you're taking right now. That's the only one that exists.
- 1:08Let the whole of your right foot be heavy.
- 1:19If the urge to rush off the stage shows up, let it be there without arguing with it. You are not trying to remove it, just to sit beside it.
- 1:40You do not have to solve the wobble in your voice in these few minutes. Your only job is to keep breathing while it is here.
- 1:59Follow one full breath from the moment it starts to the moment it ends.
- 2:13When the room full of faces presses in, put a hand on your chest or your belly. Warmth and pressure are anchors your body already trusts.
- 2:32Notice if you've been frowning at your own thoughts.
- 2:43When something arrives, label it quietly — thinking, hearing, planning, worrying — then return to the breath.
- 2:58Let the last of the stillness stay with you for a few more seconds.
Questions people ask
What does this session help with?
Speaking to a group triggers the same response as physical threat: shallow breathing, a dry mouth, and a voice that rises and speeds up. Lengthening the exhale slows speech and steadies the voice. Physically, this is a breath practice before it is a confidence practice.
Where and when should I do this one?
Feet flat, back supported, screen away from your eyeline. Nobody needs to know you are doing it. Keep it invisible if that makes it possible.
What actually happens during the 3 minutes?
Noting is a technique from insight practice: when something arises, you give it a single plain label — thinking, hearing, planning — and return to the anchor. The label creates a small distance between you and the content.
Meditation is a practice, not a treatment. If you are dealing with ongoing distress, please also reach out to a professional.