sleep · 3 min
Gratitude meditation for falling asleep (3 min), beside your desk
When falling asleep shows up beside your desk, this 3-minute gratitude session gives you somewhere to put it down.
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About this practice
When falling asleep shows up beside your desk, this 3-minute gratitude session gives you somewhere to put it down. A guided session of about 3 minutes, suited to all levels. Nothing is recorded and no account is needed.
What this works on: falling asleep
Falling asleep is a passive process. The harder you aim at it, the further it moves, because the effort itself is arousal.
It tends to show up as:
- Watching the clock
- Getting frustrated at being awake
- Sleep only arriving after giving up
Attention on something boring and continuous is the oldest trick there is. That is all a sleep story is doing.
Doing this at your desk
- Feet flat, back supported, screen away from your eyeline
- You can do this with your eyes open if the office makes closing them awkward
- Unclench the jaw and drop the shoulders first, before anything else
Nobody needs to know you are doing it. Keep it invisible if that makes it possible.
How gratitude works
Gratitude here is an attention practice, not a demand for a positive mood. Attention defaults to threats because they are urgent, so pleasant and ordinary things get skipped simply for being safe.
- Pick one ordinary thing rather than something impressive
- Stay with it for two breaths — depth beats length of list
- Do not aim at feeling grateful; aim at noticing
What happens, minute by minute
- 0:00If you're lying down, let the mattress hold all of you. You can stop holding yourself up.
- 0:15Let it be unimpressive. Small good things are the most reliable ones.
- 0:28Let the breath get a little quieter, as if you were trying not to wake someone sleeping nearby.
- 0:44Notice your breathing getting quieter on its own, without you deciding anything.
- 0:57Notice how many breaths you take in a minute. Don't change the number, just check.
- 1:11Let the whole of your right foot be heavy.
- 1:22Picture the slow drift toward sleep as a weather front passing over. You are not the weather. You are the sky it moves through.
- 1:41Remind yourself, slowly: I am safe in this moment, even while the thoughts that keep the light on is here. Safety and difficulty can share a room.
- 2:01Let your breathing get quieter rather than deeper.
- 2:12Notice the space around the surrender at the end of the day. It is there, even if it is small. Put your attention in that space.
- 2:31If you're counting the minutes, that's fine. Count them and come back.
- 2:44If nothing comes, notice that something did not go wrong. That also counts.
- 2:57Let the last of the stillness stay with you for a few more seconds.
Questions people ask
What does this session help with?
Falling asleep is a passive process. The harder you aim at it, the further it moves, because the effort itself is arousal. Attention on something boring and continuous is the oldest trick there is. That is all a sleep story is doing.
Where and when should I do this one?
Feet flat, back supported, screen away from your eyeline. Nobody needs to know you are doing it. Keep it invisible if that makes it possible.
What actually happens during the 3 minutes?
Gratitude here is an attention practice, not a demand for a positive mood. Attention defaults to threats because they are urgent, so pleasant and ordinary things get skipped simply for being safe.
Meditation is a practice, not a treatment. If you are dealing with ongoing distress, please also reach out to a professional.
If this one is not quite right, try Self-compassion meditation for grief (7 min), in the mid-afternoon, Noting meditation for concentration (5 min), in the queue or Gratitude for waking at 3am: 10 minutes, at midday.