energy · 3 min
Exhaustion: 3-minute softening meditation, at midday
For the times at midday when exhaustion takes up more room than you would like — 3 minutes, softening.
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About this practice
For the times at midday when exhaustion takes up more room than you would like — 3 minutes, softening. A guided session of about 3 minutes, suited to all levels. Nothing is recorded and no account is needed.
What this works on: exhaustion
Exhaustion is what is left after the reserves are gone. The body has stopped asking; it is now insisting.
It tends to show up as:
- Feeling hollow and drained
- Emotionally flat
- Physical heaviness all day
This is not the state to push in. The whole point here is to ask nothing and let the body be heavy.
Doing this at lunch
- Do it before eating rather than after, so you are not working against digestion
- Leaving the desk matters more than the session length
- Take the headphones off afterwards so the break registers
A break that happens at the same desk is only half a break.
How softening works
Softening is the practice of releasing held tension degree by degree rather than all at once. It targets the physical grip — shoulders, jaw, gut — that persists long after the stressor has passed.
- Soften one place per exhale rather than everything at once
- Let warmth and gravity do the work instead of muscular effort
- If a place will not soften, leave it and go somewhere that will
What happens, minute by minute
- 0:00Unclench your jaw. You were probably holding it without noticing.
- 0:12Let the exhale do the work. On each one, allow a little more give.
- 0:26Imagine your thoughts as traffic on a road you're standing beside. You don't have to flag any of it down.
- 0:43Feel the slight stretch at the very bottom of the exhale.
- 0:55Breathe in through your nose and out through your nose, if that's comfortable.
- 1:08Feel your tongue sitting in the bottom of your mouth.
- 1:20You do not have to solve the drained feeling that rest has not touched in these few minutes. Your only job is to keep breathing while it is here.
- 1:41If the hollow tiredness starts telling you a story, let the story finish without you adding to it.
- 1:57Breathe in for four, out for six, if you'd like something to count.
- 2:10Remind yourself, slowly: I am safe in this moment, even while the body asking you to stop is here. Safety and difficulty can share a room.
- 2:29If you're irritated, that's allowed. Irritation is just weather.
- 2:40Unclenching is not the same as relaxing. Just stop adding the tension back.
- 2:53Let the last of the stillness stay with you for a few more seconds.
Questions people ask
What does this session help with?
Exhaustion is what is left after the reserves are gone. The body has stopped asking; it is now insisting. This is not the state to push in. The whole point here is to ask nothing and let the body be heavy.
Where and when should I do this one?
Do it before eating rather than after, so you are not working against digestion. A break that happens at the same desk is only half a break.
What actually happens during the 3 minutes?
Softening is the practice of releasing held tension degree by degree rather than all at once. It targets the physical grip — shoulders, jaw, gut — that persists long after the stressor has passed.
Meditation is a practice, not a treatment. If you are dealing with ongoing distress, please also reach out to a professional.
If this one is not quite right, try Body scan meditation for overwhelm (3 min), before you talk, Brain fog: 20-minute softening meditation, after a long day or 5-minute guided gratitude practice for low energy — in the hour before sleep.