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Releasing tension you did not notice you were holding — explained without jargon, when you are somewhere noisy

By mid-afternoon most people are holding their shoulders, jaw and hands without knowing. Here is a two-minute check.

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None of this is glamorous. All of it is doable, which matters more.

Noise is fine. You are not trying to hear anything subtle.

If you only do one thing from this page, do the first point below. It is first because it removes the most friction for the least effort.

What helps

Start with the jaw. Let your back teeth part slightly. Most people hold their jaw closed all day and only notice at night.

Drop your shoulders by a centimetre. Not a shrug in reverse — just let gravity do the work.

Stand up and walk to another room once an hour. Not for exercise — just so your body remembers it has legs.

What to do when it does not work

Uncurl your hands. If you have been typing, your fingers are probably still curved around an invisible keyboard.

Change position every thirty minutes rather than trying to find the perfect posture. There is no correct way to sit for eight hours.

Check whether your tongue is pressed against the roof of your mouth. It usually is.

Questions people ask

Why does my jaw hurt in the morning?

Often clenching or grinding during sleep. That is worth mentioning to a dentist, who will recognise it immediately.

Do I need a standing desk?

Only if you will actually change position. A standing desk you stand at for four hours is no better than a chair you never leave.

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