Breathing exercise · 4 · 4 · 6 · 2

Uneven box breathing for a reset, when nothing else has worked today

A a square with one long side pattern, counted for you on screen.

Ready0

Follow the circle. It counts for you.

How it works

Four equal sides: 4 in, 4 held, 6 out, 2 held. Nothing else to remember. Nothing else has worked today. That is not a reason to skip this. Start with what's physical. Everything else can wait.

Why it can help

The holds are brief. Long enough to notice, short enough to be unremarkable.

The pattern, in seconds

PhaseLengthStarts at
Inhale4s0s
Hold4s4s
Exhale6s8s
Hold again2s14s

One round is 16 seconds. At the default 6 rounds this practice runs 96 seconds — about 1 minute — plus a breath or two of ordinary breathing between rounds.

Good for

  • when you are the only person awake in the house
  • when your hands are cold and your chest is tight
  • when the afternoon has gone flat

Tips

  • You can do this with your eyes open. Nothing here requires privacy.
  • Set a timer for the rounds you want, so you are not watching the clock.
  • If holding for the full count feels tight, drop every number by one. The shape matters more than the size.

Please note

If holding your breath makes you dizzy or uncomfortable, skip the holds entirely and breathe slowly and evenly instead. Never push through lightheadedness. If you are pregnant, or manage a heart, blood pressure or lung condition, check with a doctor before doing breath holds.