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How to use Gentle box breathing for coming down after exercise, when you are not sure this will work

A a smaller square, for when four counts feels long pattern, counted for you on screen.

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Follow the circle. It counts for you.

How it works

Count to 3 on the way in, 3 at the top, 3 on the way out, 3 at the bottom. Repeat. Not being sure it will work is a perfectly good reason to try it once. Simple things first: contact, weight, temperature.

Why it can help

This is a composure exercise more than a calming one. It gives you something to do while a feeling passes.

The pattern, in seconds

PhaseLengthStarts at
Inhale3s0s
Hold3s3s
Exhale3s6s
Hold again3s9s

One round is 12 seconds. At the default 10 rounds this practice runs 120 seconds — about 2 minutes — plus a breath or two of ordinary breathing between rounds.

Good for

  • before you open the email you have been avoiding
  • while you are waiting for something to start
  • when you have five minutes and no idea where to start

Tips

  • Rest for a few seconds between rounds if the pattern feels demanding.
  • Set a timer for the rounds you want, so you are not watching the clock.
  • A hold should feel like a pause, not like running out of air.

Please note

If holding your breath makes you dizzy or uncomfortable, skip the holds entirely and breathe slowly and evenly instead. Never push through lightheadedness. If you are pregnant, or manage a heart, blood pressure or lung condition, check with a doctor before doing breath holds.