Breathing exercise · 2 · 2 · 2 · 2

How to use Beginner box breathing for the commute, after a difficult conversation

The pattern is 2 · 2 · 2 · 2, which is the easiest version of the square.

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Follow the circle. It counts for you.

How it works

Breathe in for 2, hold for 2, out for 2, hold for 2. Picture tracing the sides of a square. That is the whole exercise. Difficult conversations leave a residue. This is for the residue. Simple things first: contact, weight, temperature.

Why it can help

Because nothing changes from round to round, the exercise stops being interesting — and that is exactly what you want at a difficult moment.

The pattern, in seconds

PhaseLengthStarts at
Inhale2s0s
Hold2s2s
Exhale2s4s
Hold again2s6s

One round is 8 seconds. At the default 5 rounds this practice runs 40 seconds — about a minute — plus a breath or two of ordinary breathing between rounds.

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Tips

  • The pauses should never feel like a competition. Shorten them if they do.
  • Do the last round slightly smaller than the others. It makes stopping easier.
  • Never push through a hold. Coming out of it early is always the right call.

Please note

If holding your breath makes you dizzy or uncomfortable, skip the holds entirely and breathe slowly and evenly instead. Never push through lightheadedness. If you are pregnant, or manage a heart, blood pressure or lung condition, check with a doctor before doing breath holds.