Breathing exercise · 3 · 3 · 3 · 3

Gentle box breathing — 3 · 3 · 3 · 3 — for the commute, when you have just finished work

Rounds of 3 · 3 · 3 · 3, with the counting done for you.

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Follow the circle. It counts for you.

How it works

Four equal sides: 3 in, 3 held, 3 out, 3 held. Nothing else to remember. The gap right after work is the easiest one to use. Start with what's physical. Everything else can wait.

Why it can help

The pauses are short enough that they rarely trigger the urge to gasp, which is what makes it usable in public.

The pattern, in seconds

PhaseLengthStarts at
Inhale3s0s
Hold3s3s
Exhale3s6s
Hold again3s9s

One round is 12 seconds. At the default 6 rounds this practice runs 72 seconds — about 1 minute — plus a breath or two of ordinary breathing between rounds.

Good for

  • when the day has been fine but you still feel braced
  • when the afternoon has gone flat
  • when your hands are cold and your chest is tight

Tips

  • Sit upright. Your lungs work better when you are not folded in half.
  • Notice which part of the breath feels tight, and reduce that count first.
  • If holding for the full count feels tight, drop every number by one. The shape matters more than the size.

Please note

If holding your breath makes you dizzy or uncomfortable, skip the holds entirely and breathe slowly and evenly instead. Never push through lightheadedness. If you are pregnant, or manage a heart, blood pressure or lung condition, check with a doctor before doing breath holds.