Breathing exercise · 6 · 6

Coherent 6-6 breathing: 12 rounds for the early months, when you are on your own

Simple counts — 6 · 6 — and a circle that keeps time.

Ready0

Follow the circle. It counts for you.

How it works

Equal breathing: 6 seconds in, 6 seconds out, no holds at all. Being on your own is not required, but it does make this simpler. We'll stay close to sensations rather than ideas.

Why it can help

Because the counts match, there is nothing to remember except "same speed both ways".

The pattern, in seconds

PhaseLengthStarts at
Inhale6s0s
Exhale6s6s

One round is 12 seconds. At the default 12 rounds this practice runs 144 seconds — about 2 minutes — plus a breath or two of ordinary breathing between rounds.

Good for

  • before you open the email you have been avoiding
  • after an argument, before you decide what to say next
  • when you notice your shoulders are up near your ears

Tips

  • You can do this with your eyes open. Nothing here requires privacy.
  • Practising when you are calm makes it available when you are not.
  • Nothing is held here, so there is no moment where you are waiting for permission to breathe.

Please note

If holding your breath makes you dizzy or uncomfortable, skip the holds entirely and breathe slowly and evenly instead. Never push through lightheadedness. If you are pregnant, or manage a heart, blood pressure or lung condition, check with a doctor before doing breath holds.