Breathing exercise · 4 · 4

Coherent 4-4 breathing exercise for a grey day — after a difficult conversation

Rounds of 4 · 4, with the counting done for you.

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Follow the circle. It counts for you.

How it works

In for 4, out for 4, with nothing held in between. Repeat for as long as you have. Difficult conversations leave a residue. This is for the residue. Nothing abstract for the next few minutes.

Why it can help

Equal breathing tends to be easier on people who find holds uncomfortable or anxiety-provoking.

The pattern, in seconds

PhaseLengthStarts at
Inhale4s0s
Exhale4s4s

One round is 8 seconds. At the default 5 rounds this practice runs 40 seconds — about a minute — plus a breath or two of ordinary breathing between rounds.

Good for

  • on a train or a bus, with your bag on your lap
  • before a presentation, in the corridor
  • in the two minutes after a difficult phone call

Tips

  • Try the same pattern at a different time of day and see whether it feels different.
  • It is fine to breathe through your mouth if your nose is blocked. Nose is usually easier.
  • No holds means no buildup. The rhythm does all the work.

Please note

If holding your breath makes you dizzy or uncomfortable, skip the holds entirely and breathe slowly and evenly instead. Never push through lightheadedness. If you are pregnant, or manage a heart, blood pressure or lung condition, check with a doctor before doing breath holds.