Breathing exercise · 4 · 8
4-8 breathing exercise for a hospital waiting room — after a difficult conversation
A 4 · 8 rhythm — in for four, out for eight.
Follow the circle. It counts for you.
How it works
Take 4 counts to breathe in, and 8 to breathe out. Keep the out-breath unhurried. Difficult conversations leave a residue. This is for the residue. Let the physical world hold your attention.
Why it can help
The pause at the end of a long exhale is usually longer than you expect. That gap is part of the exercise.
The pattern, in seconds
| Phase | Length | Starts at |
|---|---|---|
| Inhale | 4s | 0s |
| Exhale | 8s | 4s |
One round is 12 seconds. At the default 5 rounds this practice runs 60 seconds — about 1 minute — plus a breath or two of ordinary breathing between rounds.
Good for
- at the kitchen table, with a cup of tea going cold
- before a presentation, in the corridor
- before you open the email you have been avoiding
Tips
- Keep the effort mild. If you can hear yourself breathing hard, slow it down.
- A shorter pattern done consistently beats a longer one done once.
- There are no holds in this one, which makes it a good choice if breath-holding makes you anxious.
Please note
If holding your breath makes you dizzy or uncomfortable, skip the holds entirely and breathe slowly and evenly instead. Never push through lightheadedness. If you are pregnant, or manage a heart, blood pressure or lung condition, check with a doctor before doing breath holds.