Breathing exercise · 4 · 6

4-6 breathing: 8 rounds for bedtime, if you are sceptical about all of this

Simple counts — 4 · 6 — and a circle that keeps time.

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Follow the circle. It counts for you.

How it works

The ratio is 4 in, 6 out. Only the out-breath needs any attention. Scepticism is welcome. You do not have to believe anything for this to work. We'll stay close to sensations rather than ideas.

Why it can help

The out-breath is where the release happens. The in-breath is just the setup.

The pattern, in seconds

PhaseLengthStarts at
Inhale4s0s
Exhale6s4s

One round is 10 seconds. At the default 8 rounds this practice runs 80 seconds — about 1 minute — plus a breath or two of ordinary breathing between rounds.

Good for

  • before you open the email you have been avoiding
  • when your hands are cold and your chest is tight
  • in a hospital corridor, waiting for news

Tips

  • It is fine to breathe through your mouth if your nose is blocked. Nose is usually easier.
  • Notice which part of the breath feels tight, and reduce that count first.
  • There are no holds in this one, which makes it a good choice if breath-holding makes you anxious.

Please note

If holding your breath makes you dizzy or uncomfortable, skip the holds entirely and breathe slowly and evenly instead. Never push through lightheadedness. If you are pregnant, or manage a heart, blood pressure or lung condition, check with a doctor before doing breath holds.