Breathing exercise · 4 · 2 · 6

4-2-6 breathing exercise for a lonely evening — when you need something unremarkable

The pattern is 4 · 2 · 6, which is a short hold in the middle, a long way out.

Ready0

Follow the circle. It counts for you.

How it works

In for 4, hold for 2, out for 6. The exhale is longer than the inhale — that is the entire instruction. Nothing dramatic happens here, and that is deliberate. We'll stay close to sensations rather than ideas.

Why it can help

Doubling the exhale changes the ratio your body uses to decide how safe it is.

The pattern, in seconds

PhaseLengthStarts at
Inhale4s0s
Hold2s4s
Exhale6s6s

One round is 12 seconds. At the default 12 rounds this practice runs 144 seconds — about 2 minutes — plus a breath or two of ordinary breathing between rounds.

Good for

  • when someone has annoyed you and you need to not react
  • when your thoughts are moving faster than you are
  • when you are tired but cannot afford to be

Tips

  • Practising when you are calm makes it available when you are not.
  • Notice which part of the breath feels tight, and reduce that count first.
  • Never push through a hold. Coming out of it early is always the right call.

Please note

If holding your breath makes you dizzy or uncomfortable, skip the holds entirely and breathe slowly and evenly instead. Never push through lightheadedness. If you are pregnant, or manage a heart, blood pressure or lung condition, check with a doctor before doing breath holds.