Breathing exercise · 4 · 2 · 6

4-2-6 breathing — 4 · 2 · 6 — for a reset, when you are somewhere unfamiliar

4 · 2 · 6 breathing: a short hold in the middle, a long way out.

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Follow the circle. It counts for you.

How it works

Take 4 counts to breathe in, hold for 2, and 6 to breathe out. Keep the out-breath unhurried. It travels well. Hotels, spare rooms, other people’s sofas. Let the physical world hold your attention.

Why it can help

The long exhale is the working part. A slow out-breath is one of the few direct levers you have on your own arousal level.

The pattern, in seconds

PhaseLengthStarts at
Inhale4s0s
Hold2s4s
Exhale6s6s

One round is 12 seconds. At the default 5 rounds this practice runs 60 seconds — about 1 minute — plus a breath or two of ordinary breathing between rounds.

Good for

  • at the start of a study session, to set the tone
  • after an argument, before you decide what to say next
  • in the car, parked, before you go inside

Tips

  • Sit upright. Your lungs work better when you are not folded in half.
  • If your mind wanders to counting the rounds left, that is normal. Come back to the numbers.
  • Holding your breath is optional in every exercise here. You can always breathe through instead.

Please note

If holding your breath makes you dizzy or uncomfortable, skip the holds entirely and breathe slowly and evenly instead. Never push through lightheadedness. If you are pregnant, or manage a heart, blood pressure or lung condition, check with a doctor before doing breath holds.