Breathing exercise · 4 · 2 · 6

4-2-6 breath (4 · 2 · 6) for a hard conversation

4 · 2 · 6 breathing: a short hold in the middle, a long way out.

Ready0

Follow the circle. It counts for you.

How it works

Breathe in for 4, hold for 2, then let the breath go for 6 counts. Not being in the mood is a normal starting point. Let the physical world hold your attention.

Why it can help

The extra seconds on the way out give your body a longer signal that nothing is chasing you.

The pattern, in seconds

PhaseLengthStarts at
Inhale4s0s
Hold2s4s
Exhale6s6s

One round is 12 seconds. At the default 12 rounds this practice runs 144 seconds — about 2 minutes — plus a breath or two of ordinary breathing between rounds.

Good for

  • when the day has been fine but you still feel braced
  • when you wake at 3am and the room feels too quiet
  • after a long drive, to shake off the alertness

Tips

  • Stop after a few rounds if you feel dizzy, and breathe normally for a minute.
  • Set a timer for the rounds you want, so you are not watching the clock.
  • A hold should feel like a pause, not like running out of air.

Please note

If holding your breath makes you dizzy or uncomfortable, skip the holds entirely and breathe slowly and evenly instead. Never push through lightheadedness. If you are pregnant, or manage a heart, blood pressure or lung condition, check with a doctor before doing breath holds.