Breathing exercise · 3 · 5 · 7

3-5-7 breathing — 3 · 5 · 7 — for a hard conversation, if you are fitting this around other people

A a staircase down: three, five, seven pattern, counted for you on screen.

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Follow the circle. It counts for you.

How it works

In for 3, hold for 5, out for 7. The exhale is longer than the inhale — that is the entire instruction. It is designed to fit around other people’s schedules. Simple things first: contact, weight, temperature.

Why it can help

Doubling the exhale changes the ratio your body uses to decide how safe it is.

The pattern, in seconds

PhaseLengthStarts at
Inhale3s0s
Hold5s3s
Exhale7s8s

One round is 15 seconds. At the default 4 rounds this practice runs 60 seconds — about 1 minute — plus a breath or two of ordinary breathing between rounds.

Good for

  • when someone has annoyed you and you need to not react
  • when the weather has been grey for a week
  • on a train or a bus, with your bag on your lap

Tips

  • Stop after a few rounds if you feel dizzy, and breathe normally for a minute.
  • Count in your head, or let the circle on this page count for you.
  • Holding your breath is optional in every exercise here. You can always breathe through instead.

Please note

If holding your breath makes you dizzy or uncomfortable, skip the holds entirely and breathe slowly and evenly instead. Never push through lightheadedness. If you are pregnant, or manage a heart, blood pressure or lung condition, check with a doctor before doing breath holds.