Breathing exercise · 2 · 1 · 4
2-1-4 breathing: 12 rounds for a hard conversation, if you are new to this
A 2 · 1 · 4 rhythm — short in, short hold, long out — the smallest useful dose.
Follow the circle. It counts for you.
How it works
Breathe in through your nose for 2 counts, hold for 1. Then out for 4, slowly, without pushing. Nothing here assumes you have done this before. Stay with what you can actually feel.
Why it can help
It is hard to stay braced against something while breathing out slowly. The two do not sit well together.
The pattern, in seconds
| Phase | Length | Starts at |
|---|---|---|
| Inhale | 2s | 0s |
| Hold | 1s | 2s |
| Exhale | 4s | 3s |
One round is 7 seconds. At the default 12 rounds this practice runs 84 seconds — about 1 minute — plus a breath or two of ordinary breathing between rounds.
Good for
- when someone has annoyed you and you need to not react
- when the afternoon has gone flat
- when you cannot sleep and do not want to get up
Tips
- It is fine to breathe through your mouth if your nose is blocked. Nose is usually easier.
- Practising when you are calm makes it available when you are not.
- Holding your breath is optional in every exercise here. You can always breathe through instead.
Please note
If holding your breath makes you dizzy or uncomfortable, skip the holds entirely and breathe slowly and evenly instead. Never push through lightheadedness. If you are pregnant, or manage a heart, blood pressure or lung condition, check with a doctor before doing breath holds.